Personalized Will You Be My Bridesmaid Card? Long Distance Bridesmaid Proposal. Bridesmaid Request. Be in My Bridal Party? Be My Bridesmaid?


State love notecards are available in all 50 states! They are perfect for asking your long distance besties to be your bridesmaids!



"This card was absolutely perfect!! My dad loved it so much. Living across the state from him for the first time in my life has been rough. This card made us both happy. Thank you for adding the personal messages and touches on it as well. So perfect."
"The card was PERFECT! My boyfriend actually thought I made it, haha! I gave Lela all the credit though! Thank you again for such a unique and simple gift!!"

✽ Size: 5.25 inch x 4.25 inch card
✽ 1 card and white envelope
✽ Card base is 110 lb. white cardstock paper
✽ Digitally designed and machine cut 2 states of your choice in kraft brown
✽ Kraft brown paper, 70 lb. brown bag paper, is made using 20% post-consumer waste and 100% recycled materials
✽ Accented with red cardstock hearts placed in cities location of choice - please note each city in each state in 'Personalization' text box at checkout.
✽ Blank inside - if you would like a personalized message inside, please add this listing to your cart


✽ Select your quantity and states from the drop down boxes and in the 'Personalization' text box, please provide the cities and states (for heart placement). Otherwise, I will put the heart in the middle of the state.
✽ If you'd like 1 State with 2 hearts (See pictures 7 and 8), then please select 'State 1 + 2 hearts' for your State 2 option.
✽ During checkout, please confirm the shipping address is correct. Then, click 'proceed to checkout' to finalize your order.

Additional states, quantities and countries are available. Custom orders are always welcome. Message me with any special requests here:

✽ Before you checkout, please make sure that your shipping address is correct.
✽ Please check the current shipping times under the 'Shipping' section
✽ All domestic shipments include delivery confirmation
✽ Please review my policies :
✽ Ships from Non-Smoking home.
✽ Cards are shipped in a bubble mailer, cardboard reinforced envelope or box to ensure they arrive in excellent condition.

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If you have any questions regarding this item, please hit the "Ask a question" button next to the price and I will get back to you within 24 hours, 7 days a week.

Shipping from United States

Processing time

1-3 business days

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

Secure options
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I gladly accept cancellations

Request a cancellation within: 24 hours of purchase

I don't accept returns or exchanges

But please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

Frequently Asked Questions

Custom and personalized orders

Available by request.

If you would like a card customized, then I charge a fee of $30 per hour in the design phase of the process. Once ordered, I will send a digital draft within 24 hours from order date. Your order will include 2 revisions. Any additional revisions will be charged the design fee rate of $30 per hour. Once final approval is given by the buyer, final cards will be created and shipped within a timely manner.

After purchase, if you choose to cancel the custom order, you must cancel within 24 hours of order for full refund and cancellation. After cancellation, I will not create a new custom order for you.

Wholesale availability

Some of my items can be remade in large quantities. Please contact me if you are interested in ordering any item in bulk.

Sizing details

The dimensions of each product are mentioned in the product description. However, if you are not clear about the dimensions or would like further details on them, please do not hesitate to contact me.

Inside Message

All my cards and stationery are blank inside. If you'd like an inside message added to your card, please order this personalization listing: and the card of your choice. Please leave your personalized message in 'message to seller' at checkout.

Wrong Shipping Address

If you provide the wrong shipping address, please contact me ASAP, so I can cancel the original order and have you reorder with the correct address.
If you provide the wrong shipping address, and don't notice until after the order has shipped, please contact me ASAP, and reorder with the correct address, and I will expedite the process of creating your new order and ship it out again. I will refund the customer the original order once it returns, but not the shipping fee, unless it is a custom or personalized order. If it's a custom or personalized order, then there will be no refunds.

Lost Shipments

If your US order shipment goes missing without update to tracking info for 10 days, I can offer a refund. International orders cannot be offered the same as USPS doesn't track international packages once they've left the United States.

International Long Distance Cards

You may order international long distance cards, too. You can order it here: . Just select your state: and country: either listed or Other.

Returns, Exchanges, Refunds + Cancellations

Unless an error is made on my part, returns, refunds and exchanges are not accepted or offered due to these cards being custom and personalized.

I gladly accept cancellations, and will give a full refund, within 24 hours of purchase. I will assume you no longer want to make a purchase at my shop.

Reviews (3)


The cutest card ever to send to my out of state best friend 🥰

Frameable. I love this so much and cannot wait for my sister to receive it!

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